I tried to go on Narniaweb as a participant, but I got rejected. I must have the settings on my computer wrong for it. I don't know. I am not motivated enough to try to troubleshoot just yet. But I've read a lot of the material.
Did you see the PBS series or see the book from it, both titled
The Question of God: C.S. Lewis and Sigmund Freud Debate God, Love, Sex, and the Meaning of Life? It reminded me of a course I took in college. I was a Rhetoric major, which included a lot of cognitive psychology and analysis of communication and interpretation and perception and such, but also lots and lots of speeches, and lots and lots of logic and argument. One of the best courses ever was called
The Rhetoric of Religion. The assignments were all essays--some sermons, some fiction--about whether God existed. And they pretty much alternated between "Yes there is a God," to "No there isn't." And they were all REALLY good arguments. At the time I was going to church on campus, and kind of newly doing it on my own on purpose because I wanted to (not because my parents wanted me to). So, you know, I wanted it to come out that there was a God. So I'd be reading, and I would say to myself,"Oh whew, good," (flip to the next reading,) "Oh $&%*, there ISN'T one??!!" Well, I wasn't that emotional, but there were really compelling arguments against it sometimes and I had to admire them and often I'd be stumped to come up with a rebuttal. The point of the course was not to put everyone's religious faith into a tailspin, but to expose us to a great variety of TYPES of arguments, and what argument works against what other one. It was like learning chess strategies. And the cadaver, or practice dummy or game board or whatever happened to be the subject of religion. Religion is a good one to use because it never gets solved, but really SMART sincere people keep trying. Armand Nicholi, the originator of the PBS series and author of the book, is a professor at one of the big hoo hah universities, and he never tells his students what HE really thinks. This series was the closest thing I have seen to the experience of the course I took. It was wonderful. (the course, I mean)
One thing, though, that bugged me was that you've got the academic environment where you question and question and rethink your own views, and really are never entirely allowed to settle into a position, and then you also have to live in the outside world (and possibly go to church) and you have to act--which means that you do have to settle into some kind of a position. I mean, pastors/ministers and such go to seminary and I imagine that they take courses like this and they have to question and rethink their views, but eventually they have to get a solid personal ethic going so that they can do their work. They can't be constantly having crises of faith, and they can't debate endlessly with their parishoners, because they're supposed to be solidly on the "God" team. When they are at someone's deathbed, you know, they're supposed to be reassuring.
So, I'm wondering, on the Narniaweb site, if it gets hard for people. Some are really good at making the arguments, some are tired of arguing the same points over and over, some hear them for the first time and get really upset because they don't have any answer to the new questions asked by a smart doubter (or a pagan agnostic nontheistic person

). Some of the older ones may feel a bit protective of the tender young 'uns who participate on the site and they get a bit
techy (is that the right spelling?
tetch-ee). Or some may feel more threatened than they like, and you end up looking kind of like an orc, and they feel they have to win one FOR THE SHIRE!!!! If everyone can stay calm and civil, and maybe tolerate a bit of cognitive dissonance now and then, everyone can learn something.
On another point, I love it that you asked your mom about British underwear and that she had an answer, and I love it that the underwear had a name and that she remembers the eeewy rubbery buttons.